1. Create and verify your account
Sign up with your name, email address and password. Open the verification email and follow its link before logging in. Email verification helps confirm that the address belongs to you.
How it works
Three gentle steps
From your first verified login to your shared memories, here is how your private space works.
- 01
Create your space
Sign up and give your little world a name.
- 02
Invite your person
Send a private invite. Only the two of you can ever enter.
- 03
Start sharing
Write, remember and feel — at your own pace.
A closer look at Dearmine
2. Create or join a private couple room
After signing in, create a room and invite your partner by email. They accept the private invitation using the invited, verified email address. A room has exactly two members, with no public profile or audience.
3. Share emotions and journal entries
Add a title, message and optional mood. Keep an entry as a private draft, schedule it to open at a future time, or choose Unlock Together. Unlock Together entries open only after both partners consent. Your partner can reply after an entry opens.
4. Send Love Letters and replies
Write a private draft, then send it straight away or schedule it for a special moment. Scheduled letters stay sealed until their delivery time. Once the recipient opens an available letter, they can write one reply. Sent letters cannot be edited.
5. Save memories and photos
Create a memory with a title, story, date, location and tags. Add photos to build your shared gallery, then search, filter and sort memories later. Photos use temporary signed links rather than permanent public addresses.
6. Follow your timeline and special dates
Add dated moments and notes to your timeline, and link an event to a memory when it belongs with that story. You can edit or remove timeline entries. Special-date reminders depend on your notification preferences.
7. Choose notifications and privacy controls
Settings lets you choose activity notifications and optional notification emails. You can also hide entry previews and blur photos on signed-in devices. These display controls add visual privacy; they are not encryption or a device lock.
Frequently asked questions
Can more than two people join a room?
No. Every Dearmine room is made for exactly two people.
Do I need to verify my email?
Yes. Verify your email before logging in or accepting a room invitation. An invitation must be accepted with the email address that received it.
What happens to a scheduled letter?
Its title and contents stay sealed until the date and time you chose. The recipient can open it after it becomes available.
What does Unlock Together mean?
The journal entry stays locked until both current room members give their consent. Either partner can then read the opened entry.
What happens if I leave a room?
You lose access to the room and its shared content straight away. The shared content is preserved for the remaining partner, and you must wait 24 hours before creating or joining another room.
Are memory photos publicly available?
No. They are stored in a private bucket and displayed through short-lived signed links for authorized room members.